Hmn, interesting thread! FINALLY people take interest in this board when I happen to be online.
I don't see Tobias as a Sue or even as a serious anti-Sue... I see him as "realistic" representation of what a person with his background would do in reaction to his set of circumstances.
I also see him as a definite Woobie, but that's not where I'm planning to go with this. *chuckle*
Anyway... suppose you're the kid who gets swirlied in school and has his one pair of nice new shoes boloed over the power lines next to his aunt's apartment... nobody cares about you, as far as you know. Life, as a rule, sucks eggs.
Then aliens arrive, suddenly you're all world-saving, you have a purpose, and you're IMPORTANT to somebody...
...and then almost as soon as it starts, you're trapped in the body of a CHICKEN-HAWK, for pity's sake, and are pretty much out of the fight for good, as far as you know.
Then, just as soon as you let yourself get used to being said chicken-hawk, some puppet-master dood lets you get your old body back... but with a catch to it.
And now, just to make things more complicated, you fell in love with the Most Perfect Person Ever (not really... and thank God for it, or this thread would be about Rachel instead), so every time you morph human, there's this whole stigma and massive decision-making-moment, yada yada.
I dunno' 'bout you, but given those circumstances, yeah, I might be a little bit emo and angsty.
Add to it the torture and the admittedly VERY Sue-ish realization that my Da was a dead alien prince... well, I think it'd be way more Sue-ish if Tobias WASN'T effed-up severely.
I mean, if K.A. wrote him with ANYTHING like a happy ending, the intense unrealism of that would be...
well, it'd be just a bit appalling, I think.
Sad to say it, but I prefer miserable-Tobias to any other Tobias. Even dead-Tobias would just add to his Sue status, unfortunately.
*shrug* Well, there's my twenty cents. Make of it what you will.
Future reference: Ax is my current favourite. The only characters who were NEVER my favourites were Cassie (oy vey) and Marco (he thinks too much like me, so I don't trust him).