Duff, I'll make up tapes for rhotic-vs-non-rhotic accents, and you should listen to tape 01 to get the pronunciation of 'right', 'like', 'might', etc. The other features of Californian are probably already part of your accent: caught/cot merger and sad/sand split.
For the pronunciation of r after a vowel, even if you're not willing to record yourself, listen to and imitate the pronunciation in this song:
Summertime by Hale-Bopp
especially the 'r's in.
"slumber again"
"far away"
"your confusion"
"you are only human"
"look around you"
"summer again"
If you're feeling adventurous, here are the details of the differences:
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New England English:R is pronounced with a backwards curled tongue. This sound only occurs in the phoneme R.
ER pronounced with the tip of the tongue below the teeth. Some varieties merge to AH. ('lobster' becomes 'lobstuh')
UR is pronounced the same as ER (so hurry (HH UR IY) and furry rhyme)
AR is pronounced almost the same as Received Pronunciation AA. 'Cod' (K AA D) is distinct from 'card' (K AR D), which sounds like RP 'cod/card' (since RP merges AR and AA). The sound isn't exactly the same--the tongue is pushed a little further forward in NE AR. NE AA is a lot farther back than RP AA, like AA in other American accents. Some varieties of NE English, however, do merge these sounds.
OR is a diphthong (moving vowel) that ends in the same position as ER. The first vowel is the "open o" of RP AO (most NE accents don't use this vowel alone, and pronounce AO like AA). NE OR is exactly like RP 'AO ER'--however, RP merges OR and AO.
AIR IR OR are pronounced as diphthongs (two vowels together):
AIR -> EH ER -or- AY ER (a
triphthong) in accents that merge ER and AH (so 'there' sounds like "they-uh')
IR -> IH ER
AY has two pronunciations depending on context (Canadian vowel raising). For example "right" and "ride" are pronounced with different vowels.
AE has a different pronunciation before N, M and NG. Before N and M, the vowel is tenser. Compare "sad" and "sand". Before NG, AE is pronounced like EY.
AA and AO are merged, so that "caught" and "cot", "ball" and "Baal", "all" and "c
auliflower" are pronounced the same.
Southern California (no CAVS)R is pronounced the same way. The sound used also occurs in the phonemes AR AIR ER IR OR UR
ER pronounced with a backwards-curled tongue.
AR -> AA R
AIR -> EH R
IR -> IH R
OR pronounced with same starting vowel as NE, but then goes to R, not NE ER
UR -> ER
AY has only one pronunciation.
AE before N M is the same as NE. I'm not sure about NG.
AA and AO are merged.
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