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Not sure how absent I'm going to be, but I won't be here much...
« on: September 13, 2008, 09:57:54 PM »
Dunno how many of you know, but... I've been living at my Uncle's place with him and his wife, and my mother.  Well...all was not well on the proverbial western front for a while, and it ended up being my uncle's wife being slightly insane about her standards that she expected us to live up to, even though SHE HERSELF COULD NOT, and she's basically yelling at us for not doing the dishes ONE NIGHT when we've BEEN doing them, including HERS twice a day, doing all her housework for her like sweeping and stuff, AND have collectively applied for over thirty-five jobs in two months we've been here.  Well apparently she thinks we're mooching off of her and not really looking even though we spend what time we're NOT doing housework like indentured servants looking for jobs.

She doesn't seem to grasp the concept of this state being in a RECESSION, and the fact that there were two MAJOR auto company plants that USED to be out here but closed down JUST BEFORE WE MOVED HERE, so they're all looking for work, while she's complaining about being able to sit down in her 40-hour-a-week job and actually get paid to sit there while those who don't have a job/just moved here are scraping for a living.


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Point being - major drama and huge family fued on this side.  By the end of hte month, I will be living in a new place about a mile away, at my Aunt's (my mom's sister), with three other women, at least one of which is as much of a computer **** as I am.  SO

I'm not going to be on too much during 'peak' times on this site, don't expect to see me too often, I'll be busy working (I got a ****-for-nothing job that I already know I'm not going to stay at very long if I can help it, but it's a foot in the door, and a paycheck so I don't lose my car, so what the hell, I'll take it for now, but I reserve the right to complain...), and when I'm not working I'll be deciding what I need in the boxes I have here and putting the rest in storage slowly but surely. 

More than anything, I'll just plain be too damn stressed out to do anything but stare at the pretty designs my media player has.

So I'm not going to be around TOO much, I'll pop into chat here or there when I'm slightly coherant, but...

...If I show up and I seem a bit odd, I apologize. I've just got a lot on my plate.  So I'm not going to be a fixture for a little while.
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Re: Not sure how absent I'm going to be, but I won't be here much...
« Reply #1 on: September 14, 2008, 06:54:30 AM »
Don't get too stressed out Jen!

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Re: Not sure how absent I'm going to be, but I won't be here much...
« Reply #2 on: September 14, 2008, 01:56:44 PM »
Haha!  Fortune cookies are welcome.  And easier said than done :P 

Eh, I've just had a rash of bad luck.  But I believe in Karma, so I'm sure that I'm just getting this bad crap outta the way so that good can take its place later :)  There.  That's as happy as I'm gonna get.  Lol.
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Re: Not sure how absent I'm going to be, but I won't be here much...
« Reply #3 on: September 14, 2008, 02:01:36 PM »
Sorry to hear things aren't going too well, I hope things get better soon.  :)
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Re: Not sure how absent I'm going to be, but I won't be here much...
« Reply #4 on: September 14, 2008, 02:15:41 PM »
Ouch, Jen.  Just keep your head up :)  We'll miss you here, but we all hope that things get worked out.
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« Reply #5 on: September 14, 2008, 04:50:16 PM »
Aw, so sorry about your stressful situation. Good luck, hope everything works out okay.  :-\
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« Reply #6 on: September 14, 2008, 05:54:35 PM »
That sucks Jen.  :-\ Well I hope everything calms down for ya. And try not to get so stressed that you forget about us! :)

Good luck with moving again.
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« Reply #7 on: September 14, 2008, 09:24:21 PM »
Bless you, Jen. I hope that things swiftly improve for you, my friend. :)
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Re: Not sure how absent I'm going to be, but I won't be here much...
« Reply #8 on: September 14, 2008, 09:28:00 PM »
Aww, stress isn't fun. Hope everything works out...Doesn't seem fun to move right after you just did...
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Re: Not sure how absent I'm going to be, but I won't be here much...
« Reply #9 on: September 24, 2008, 10:59:29 AM »
apparently I'm moving this week.  We weren't fast enough to move out for the ****, she couldn't wait three days until the end of the month, she wants us out this weekend.

I'm going to spraypaint rude words in red across her pretty cream walls....okay, maybe not, but it's a tempting thought.  She didn't even have the balls to tell us herself, she made my poor abused Uncle tell us that she didn't want us here past the weekend.   She's mentally abused him so much, done this to EVERY SINGLE RELATIVE he has that isn't in HER family, by the way, she is mentally f-ing abusive (this is what abusive people do, whether it's physical or mental, they push away their mark's family and friends so that there's nobody there to tell them that the abuse they're taking is WRONG), and belongs in a straight jacket.  And if you think I'm not telling her that, you really don't know me.  And I'm going to tell her husband how much of a ball-less s.o.b. he is, and how he's being abused and this is someone telling him that it's NOT okay to take abuse.

Anyone have any good, LEGAL ideas for revenge, other than telling her how psychotic she is?
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Re: Not sure how absent I'm going to be, but I won't be here much...
« Reply #10 on: September 24, 2008, 11:59:56 AM »
Secretly record her being insane and send it to the cops or the nice men in white coats?  :P

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« Reply #11 on: September 24, 2008, 12:05:23 PM »
legal? cause i know a guy who could take care of her for you, but that would fall in the legally grey area of murder in the first degree

you could hide a fish somewhere in her house

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Re: Not sure how absent I'm going to be, but I won't be here much...
« Reply #12 on: September 24, 2008, 12:12:08 PM »
Oh yeah.  I've heard of the fish one before.  Like hiding a frozen fish somewhere in their A/C system of their car.
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« Reply #13 on: September 24, 2008, 12:39:53 PM »
Lol nice.

Aww. Well, I hope she trips and falls down the stairs and breaks her neck and is dying and needs help and your the only one there to save her. Lets see how much of a psycho she is then.

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Re: Not sure how absent I'm going to be, but I won't be here much...
« Reply #14 on: September 24, 2008, 12:41:02 PM »
haha a fish would be a great idea...
i hope things go better for you very soon!