lying solves all, and I guarantee the dads at least aren't going to be checking that :X
Many people say chronological order is
TEC
HBC
TAC
Visser
then the series, and some may argue MM2 after TEC
I disagree; in my mind publication order is chronological with 2 exceptions: TAC runs along the first few chapters of #1, and TEC runs along the 4th or so chapter of #54.
All the others are stories told within there place in the series. The story is of earlier events, but the telling of the story-which is the book- is at a different point in time.
So says I. Anal retentive as I am