I'm a state-the-obvious-just-because-it's-obvious kinda' person, so here goes nothing:
You've made nearly 400 posts, and it only now occurs to you that maybe you don't fit into the group?
Uhmn... if we haven't kicked you OUT by your 200th post, it's pretty much a no-brainer that you fit in.
Everybody at some point says something that, even if they mean it, they regret later having said aloud. You've already essentially apologised, and as you can see you're already long since forgiven. So some milk got spilt? Eh. Obviously nobody died in a horribibble milk-spilling accident of doooommmm...
...so buck up and start posting again! We like you, kiddo'.
Ehehe... also, if you were to leave, you'd have to collect your sanity from the seal and the faerie... and they don't like making refunds.
Anyway, I'll admit that I don't know you as well on a person-to-star basis as some of the others, but Shanker joined about the same time as me, and he's one of my best friends here. He apparently likes you, and Ash (who is awesomesauce incarnate, by the way) seems to like you, too. I trust their judgment-of-character skills. I automatically like you by association, and I've never even had a real conversation with you outside this thread.
So you fit in. Okey?