I think the fact that life threw all this bull at Tobias: no 'rents, uncle and aunt hate him, bullies picked on him, trapped as a hawk, tortured, hawk loves Rambo Barbie, having to eat wildlife. The thing that really made me love Tobias, is that all throughout it, he stayed in the fight. He never just sulked off in a corner and died. He was always there to help. He always made an effort. He always kept going. Emo kids wallow in self pity and hate the world, Tobias never did that, sure there were times were he felt sorry for himself, but he never gave up. He played the hand that was dealt to him. And I think he played it admirably.